YOU chose not to have a relationship with your dad.
YOU posted this publicly, so I am responding publicly.
You told his wife to die in a hole.
This “old sh*t” you claim has always been ongoing. You are incapable of apologizing for things you have done, though you post on social media how other people are incapable of apologizing.
YOU lied about your father to HIS family and publicly online, claiming your sister was molested here. His family couldn’t bother to ask the truth and believed yours, your mom’s, and Madi’s lies. You manipulated a woman who was actually molested by a family member for some type of sick revenge, then gave her my contact info to harass me. The truth is, you chose to punish your dad for your own choices, and your pride keeps you from apologizing.
YOU complained publicly online every time you were with your dad, nothing he did was right in your eyes. This was even before we got married.
When we attended your graduation, YOU smeared us online saying you didn’t invite us and why would you say thank you for gifts you didn’t ask for?
You lied to your dad on the phone about where your sister was, claiming you didn’t know, while WE were searching all night long for her, worried about her safety. You enabled your mom to trash her life like she trashed your life, then claimed it was all our fault. She was doing well here, in choir and cross country, good grades, until your mom realized her gravy train of welfare was ending when you aged out, and started manipulating your sister. I’m not giving her an excuse, for as many times as your mom lied to her, she just kept accepting the lies and she tanked her own life.
This is true because YOUR mom left the state to move to Florida to live with her convict brother&wife&child, and her own boyfriend in a 2 bedroom mobile home. Your dad went to court to fight for you, and you threatened to run away if he got custody. We have the filing with the court.
Then you post this. You claim your dad requiring you to get out of bed at noon, do your homework, attend class, and be a good human means HE is narcissistic. Then you post after this one that he ditched you, when you made it clear you want nothing to do with him.
The sad part is, no one in your life will ever be honest with you about truth, much like you will never be honest with yourself.
Your father wanted to be your father, but he doesn’t have to accept abuse from you. We pray some day you will wake up and repent.
This is all just the tip of the iceberg of your horrible behavior, and your dad has already apologized for his own role in the divorce and not raising you properly. It’s your turn.