Happy Father’s Day to the man that loves the Lord, and tries so hard every day to be the best father he can be.
We are grateful for you. We are grateful for how hard you work every day for our family. We are grateful for your deep love and caring for us.
Let me address the elephant in the room. To his biological kids, you reap what you sow. You lied to the police about him. You tried to get him arrested. You refused to let him be a father and chose your narcissist mother. You rejected every attempt at reconciliation; it takes two. You refuse to accept any responsibility for your part, and you fail to see the manipulation of your own mother.
You can keep posting stuff like this:
But that doesn’t repair your relationship. We aren’t willing to live in your lies, but when you are ready, we are still here.
I feel sad for YOU. Your mom convinced you that your dad is something he is not, and she succeeded in taking away the only parent in your life that truly wants the best for you.
You are the ones missing the love and guidance because you CHOSE it. Not only did you choose it, but you tried to punish him through the law and destroy me and my children.
Your mistakes aren’t small, they aren’t just some childish tantrums. They were abusive and destructive. Yes, YOU are abusive. You are still abusive, but choose to pretend you are the victim.
You will have no peace until you accept and repent of what you did. Your dad already has, he has admitted his mistakes. You believe you have done none, and that guilt will always follow you. THAT is why you need a therapist.
We can’t control what the three of you choose as adults. We pray for you daily.
But you are missing a great life with an amazing man that would walk on glass for you. He’s not willing to accept responsibility for your sin, for your abuse.